After delving deep into the psyche of the human male, let’s try the female! What do women want?
How many times have you heard the men in your life moan and groan that they cannot understand what women want. There is even a movie with the same name. Yet the mystery prevails!
Me a mere mortal, am going to try to draw the veil from this eternal mystery..:P !
WHAT DO WOMEN WANT?
Just like any other guy, we want to be happy, beautiful, successful, respected…we want just about everything, exactly like you 😛
Let me try and make it a tad simpler…
We women would love to have a wife, I have always wanted one. Someone who would wash my clothes, make my bed, feed the kids, cook, take care of me when I am sick. Actually far better than a wife would be the quintessential , multi-purpose man-servant of Hindi movies..Ramu kaka 😉
We women would like men to surprise us with gifts, the more expensive the better. (sometime we would also like to be asked what we want at that point in time).
When a woman asks you how she is looking in a dress, be honest. Give her feedback in sentences, not just a couple of words, like ‘nice’, ‘good’! and learn to tolerate when we ask you the same question a couple of times. we are just looking for some reassurance.
We would also like zero calorie versions of stuff like this:
What women want from men is pretty simple actually. She wants time and attention. She doesn’t want to be competing with any of men’s gadgets /games for these.
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November 8, 2011 at 12:27 pm
Rupa
woww.. so true PP. This is precisely what we want.. more than the gifts the sweet words they say for us.. and more than the money the time they spend with us.. The time when they are not on gadgets, or talking abt technology or about their business..
We are so simple but they complicate us by their overly smart logic application into everything..
November 9, 2011 at 9:16 am
ppriyaaster
Thanks Rups…I do agree with you. Women are very simple creatures actually, but the men have perceived us to be very complicated over centuries..
November 14, 2011 at 10:11 am
Sum
Ha ha!! Very nicely written, PP! Good one and very true!
November 15, 2011 at 7:18 am
ppriyaaster
Thanks Sum, glad you liked it 🙂
November 15, 2011 at 8:50 pm
Mohan
Dear Ms PP, we (the menfolk of the universe) regret to inform you that the man you are looking for, doesnt exist. And hasnt ever existed except in mythology, fairytales. Ever wonder why all romantic tales end with marriage? Think about it 🙂
But women can always hire their own personal Ramu Kakas for their washing, cooking, cleaning, nursing needs!
Another myth is the assumption that men want to be “beautiful”. We dont. Women want their men to be “well groomed”(and vice versa, to be fair) . We liked Akshay Kumar better when he didnt wax his chest. We also think metrosexual is just innuendo for “pansy” 🙂
Women might be simple, but the problem is that men are simpler(or dumber). Figuring what you want is Nursery Rhymes for you, but Advanced Calculus for us. The fact that you sometimes want to be surprised with gifts, but sometimes want to be asked isn’t helping either 😦
For a more detailed chintan-baithak on this matter, we will need to meet over good food and good wine…
November 16, 2011 at 7:49 am
ppriyaaster
I agree..this needs a lot of chintan-baithak and a lot of good wine 🙂
November 16, 2011 at 8:33 am
Mohan
yes indeed! please name a place & time and I shall be there 🙂
November 16, 2011 at 7:54 am
ppriyaaster
The waxingmust have been painful. really painful for Akshay.